It's been awhile, nearly 16 months, since the 27-year-old Red Velvet vocalist has been in the spotlight like this, performing and promoting and laughing. In fact, she's currently laughing at herself because she forgot the exact phrasing of the words she wrote for her album artwork. "It says," she starts, already a little unsure, "new chapter begins, or something? It says something about a new chapter. Hold on!" The sparkling, dulcet tone of laughter floods the speakers of my laptop, as she looks at the muted blue packaging in front of her. "New chapter of our lives has begun! It's on my album. I wrote that!" Try to find your community. Be uncompromising but also try to help other femmes. There's this myth that I also bought into for a long time that was like, there's only space for a few people and if certain people succeed that means that I won't. It isn’t so much the casting of Tremblay, himself, that I have a problem with. It’s what casting a non-disfigured child for this role represents. It represents every time someone with a disfigurement has been passed up for a promotion, or not hired for a job, because of their appearance. It represents every time someone with fewer qualifications was chosen over someone like us, simply because of what we look like.This is not to say thatWonder inviting fans to witness her wedding to someone named "Jesse."